COMBINATIONS THAT DON'T WORK 101
You can't nit pick faults in people everyday and also expect them to be super confident individuals ready to take on the world.
You can't keep directing someone on what to do, and then suddenly release the leash and expect said someone to automatically know what's up.
Ambition doesn't awaken in a person overnight. It comes from birth. You can't bury off a person's passions and then expect them to still have a zeal in them to go get the world.
Life doesn't work that way.
As the saying goes, as you sow, so shall you reap.